Add NoSameOwner option when unpacking tars

When unpacking a TAR archive, containerd preserves file's owner:
https://github.com/containerd/containerd/blob/main/archive/tar.go#L384

In some cases this behavior is not desired. In current implementation we
avoid `Lchown` on Windows. Another case when this should be skipped is
when using native snapshotter on darwin and running as non-root user.

This PR extracts a generic option - `WithNoSameOwner` (same as
`tar --no-same-owner`) to skip `Lchown` when its not required.

Signed-off-by: Maksym Pavlenko <pavlenko.maksym@gmail.com>

archive/issues_test.go

@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@ func TestPrefixHeaderReadable(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Fatal(err)
 	}
 	defer r.Close()
-	_, err = Apply(context.Background(), tmpDir, r)
+	_, err = Apply(context.Background(), tmpDir, r, WithNoSameOwner())
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatal(err)
 	}