update OpenTelemetry dependencies and grpc

This update dropped the otelgrpc → cloud.google.com/go/compute dependency,
among others. This dropped out because genproto cleaned up it's dependencies
on google cloud libraries, and otel updated - details in #113366.

Signed-off-by: Davanum Srinivas <davanum@gmail.com>
Co-Authored-By: David Ashpole <dashpole@google.com>

vendor/github.com/felixge/httpsnoop/capture_metrics.go

@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ func (m *Metrics) CaptureMetrics(w http.ResponseWriter, fn func(http.ResponseWri
 				return func(code int) {
 					next(code)
 
-					if !headerWritten {
+					if !(code >= 100 && code <= 199) && !headerWritten {
 						m.Code = code
 						headerWritten = true
 					}