Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 62632, 62789, 62512, 62848). If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>.
use recordFlags to manage recording
This updates the set commands to use the recordflags and updates the commands we're touching to follow the pattern that is emerging. A method for New*Options, a valid default value for a recorder there, using the value `o` everywhere to refer to options, naming the struct `<commandName>Options`.
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@soltysh @juanvallejo continues the effort
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