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Fix retry logic in service controller
**What this PR does / why we need it**: Make service controller don't retry on doNotRetry service update failure.
**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes#54183
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/assign @nicksardo @bowei
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Automatic merge from submit-queue. If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>.
Enable event logging in the service controller
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This PR enables logging for the events in the service controller which keeps parity with the [node controller](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/blob/master/pkg/controller/cloud/node_controller.go#L83).
**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes#53528
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**Release note**:
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/cc @luxas @wlan0 @jhorwit2
Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 51108, 51035, 50539, 51160, 50947)
Delete load balancers if the UIDs for services don't match.
An attempt to fix https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/43730
@thockin @djsly
