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Use nodeutil.GetHostIP consistently when talking to nodes
Most of our communications from apiserver -> nodes used
nodutil.GetNodeHostIP, but a few places didn't - and this meant that the
node name needed to be resolvable _and_ we needed to populate valid IP
addresses.
```release-note
The apiserver now uses addresses reported by the kubelet in the Node object's status for apiserver->kubelet communications, rather than the name of the Node object. The address type used defaults to `InternalIP`, `ExternalIP`, and `LegacyHostIP` address types, in that order.
```
Most of our communications from apiserver -> nodes used
nodutil.GetNodeHostIP, but a few places didn't - and this
meant that the node name needed to be resolvable _and_ we needed
to populate valid IP addresses.
Fix the last few places that used the NodeName.
Issue #18525
Issue #9451
Issue #9728
Issue #17643
Issue #11543
Issue #22063
Issue #2462
Issue #22109
Issue #22770
Issue #32286
KubeletClient implements ConnectionInfoGetter, but it is not a complete
implementation: it does not set the kubelet port from the node record,
for example.
By renaming the method so that it does not implement the interface, we
are able to cleanly see where the "raw" GetConnectionInfo is used (it is
correct) and also have go type-checking enforce this for us.
