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bazel: build/test almost everything
**What this PR does / why we need it**: Miscellaneous cleanups and bug fixes. The main motivating idea here was to make `bazel build //...` and `bazel test //...` mostly work. (There's a few reasons these still don't work, but we're a lot closer.)
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/assign @BenTheElder @mikedanese @spxtr
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add FlagPersistent flag in nodePort and other situation
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
For AffinityClientIP service, origin code in ipvs didn't add Persistent flag, which is a bug, so I added it.
**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes#52626
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
add FlagPersistent flag in nodePort and other situation
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Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 50294, 50422, 51757, 52379, 52014). If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>..
rsync ipvs proxier to HEAD of iptables
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
rsync ipvs proxier to HEAD of iptables.
**Which issue this PR fixes**:
xref #51679
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
Obviously, @Lion-Wei has done part of this work, ref: #51922. It's fine that let #51922 get in first.
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