Automatic merge from submit-queue. If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>..
bazel: build/test almost everything
**What this PR does / why we need it**: Miscellaneous cleanups and bug fixes. The main motivating idea here was to make `bazel build //...` and `bazel test //...` mostly work. (There's a few reasons these still don't work, but we're a lot closer.)
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/assign @BenTheElder @mikedanese @spxtr
Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 52469, 52574, 52330, 52689, 52829). If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>..
Fix IPVS service Flags
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
**Which issue this PR fixes**:
fixes#52393
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**Release note**:
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NONE
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