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Use `--oom-score-adj` flag for kube-proxy
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Replace `echo -998 > /proc/$$$/oom_score_adj` with `--oom-score-adj` flag for kube-proxy.
**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes#51083
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
/assign @justinsb @vishh
**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```
