This updates the EndpointSlice controller to make use of the
EndpointSlice tracker to identify when expected changes are not present
in the cache yet. If this is detected, the controller will wait to sync
until all expected updates have been received. This should help avoid
race conditions that would result in duplicate EndpointSlices or failed
attempts to update stale EndpointSlices. To simplify this logic, this
also moves the EndpointSlice tracker from relying on resource versions
to generations.
