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Fix kubelet event recording
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
There are numerous areas where the kubelet was not properly recording events due to an incorrect type.
To keep this small, I updated all references to `RefManager` that result in throwing an event to ensure it does a conversion.
**Which issue this PR fixes**
Fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/46241Fixes#44348Fixes#44652
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
I updated all references I could find to the existing RefManager in kubelet.
**Release note**:
```release-note
fix kubelet event recording for selected events.
```
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