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Allow apiserver to choose preferred kubelet address type
Follow up to #33718 to stay compatible with clusters using DNS names for master->node communications. Adds the `--kubelet-preferred-address-types` apiserver flag for clusters that prefer a different node address type.
```release-note
The apiserver can now select which type of kubelet-reported address to use for master->node communications, using the --kubelet-preferred-address-types flag.
```