Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 52452, 52115, 52260, 52290)
Fix support for updating quota on update
This PR implements support for properly handling quota when resources are updated. We never take negative values and add them up.
Fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/51736
cc @derekwaynecarr
/sig storage
```release-note
Make sure that resources being updated are handled correctly by Quota system
```