Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 41401, 41195, 41664, 41521, 41651)
Remove default failure domains from anti-affinity feature
Removing it is necessary to make performance of this feature acceptable at some point.
With default failure domains (or in general when multiple topology keys are possible), we don't have transitivity between node belonging to a topology. And without this, it's pretty much impossible to solve this effectively.
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