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Allow a flag that forces kubelet to have a valid kubeconfig
`--require-kubeconfig` forces the kubelet to use the kubeconfig for all
APIserver communication, and exit cleanly. Allows cluster lifecycle to loop waiting for config to be available.
Fixes#30515
A follow up PR will handle the issue discovered where the DefaultCluster rules applied to kubeconfig allow a malicious party who can bind to localhost:8080 to take advantage of an admin misconfiguration.
@lukemarsden @mikedanese
```release-note
The Kubelet now supports the `--force-kubeconfig` option which reads all client config from the provided `--kubeconfig` file and will cause the Kubelet to exit with error code 1 on error. It also forces the Kubelet to use the server URL from the kubeconfig file rather than the `--api-servers` flag. Without this flag set, a failure to read the kubeconfig file would only result in a warning message.
In a future release, the value of this flag will be defaulted to `true`.
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