Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 39373, 41585, 41617, 41707, 39958)
Feature-Gate affinity in annotations
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Adds back basic flaggated support for alpha Affinity annotations
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
Reconcile function is placed in the lowest common denominator, which in this case is schedulercache, because you can't place flag-gated functions in apimachinery.
**Release note**:
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/cc @davidopp
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