Automatic merge from submit-queue
Petset controller
Took longer than I expected. Main parts of this pr are:
1. Identity generation based on petset spec (volumes are mapped per discussion in #18016)
2. Ensure that we create/delete pets in sequence
3. Ensuring that we create, wait for healthy, create; or delete, wait for terminationGrace, delete
4. Controller that watches apiserver and drives actual -> desired
PVCs are not deleted, yet.