Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 41112, 41201, 41058, 40650, 40926)
verify: Use macOS compatible copying method
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Similar to the fix in #34944, this fixes issues in the `make verify` tests, by using a copy method that is compatible with macOS and the bsd version of `cp`.
Before fix:
```
Verifying hack/make-rules/../../hack/verify-codegen.sh
cp: illegal option -- T
usage: cp [-R [-H | -L | -P]] [-fi | -n] [-apvX] source_file target_file
cp [-R [-H | -L | -P]] [-fi | -n] [-apvX] source_file ... target_directory
FAILED hack/make-rules/../../hack/verify-codegen.sh 0s
```
After fix:
```
Verifying hack/make-rules/../../hack/verify-codegen.sh
Building client-gen
Building lister-gen
Building informer-gen
diffing cmd/kube-aggregator/hack/../pkg against freshly generated codegen
cmd/kube-aggregator/hack/../pkg up to date.
+++ [0128 10:06:48] Building the toolchain targets:
k8s.io/kubernetes/hack/cmd/teststale
k8s.io/kubernetes/vendor/github.com/jteeuwen/go-bindata/go-bindata
+++ [0128 10:06:48] Generating bindata:
test/e2e/generated/gobindata_util.go
/opt/gopath/src/k8s.io/kubernetes /opt/gopath/src/k8s.io/kubernetes/test/e2e/generated
/opt/gopath/src/k8s.io/kubernetes/test/e2e/generated
+++ [0128 10:06:49] Building go targets for darwin/amd64:
cmd/libs/go2idl/client-gen
cmd/libs/go2idl/lister-gen
cmd/libs/go2idl/informer-gen
Building client-gen
Building lister-gen
Building informer-gen
SUCCESS hack/make-rules/../../hack/verify-codegen.sh 59s
```
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```
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