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fix resource builder flags API
Fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/64512
This pull expands the utility of the resource builder flags and demonstrates a second use-case with `kubectl set selector`.
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/assign @juanvallejo
/assign @soltysh
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