
Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 58420, 60483). If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>. Kube apiserver ServerRunOptions set default called before use **What this PR does / why we need it**: move `ServerRunOptions` set default function `defaultOptions` out of `CreateKubeAPIServerConfig`, it should be called before real use `CreateNodeDialer`. So move it to cobra.Command just after kube-apiserver flags parsed. Similarly `ServerRunOptions.Validate` move there too. **Release note**: ```release-note NONE ```