Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 46458, 50934, 50766, 50970, 47698)
Skip non-update endpoint updates
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
On large clusters, a large percentage of endpoint updates are actually non-updates that occur as a result of a change in an associated pod. This results in endpoint updates where the only field that has changed is the `TargetRef.ResourceVersion` in the endpoint address associated with the changed pod. Given enough of these non-updates, the endpoint controller's queue rate limit can be overwhelmed and legitimate updates can be delayed, resulting in (temporarily) broken services. We have clusters where we've seen endpoint updates take 9 minutes.
**Which issue this PR fixes** : fixes#50936
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
N/A
**Release note**:
```release-note
Prevent unneeded endpoint updates
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