When adding a dependent to the graph, we ensure there is a node representing each owner reference,
and add the dependent to each parent node.
If the parent node already exists, and the dependent's ownerReference
coordinates disagree with the verified coordinates, add the dependent to the attemptToDelete queue.
This queue will check the dependent's ownerReferences using the coordinates specified by the dependent.
If all of the owners can be verified absent, the dependent will be deleted.
If some are still present, or if there are errors looking them up, the dependent will not be deleted.
If the parent node has been observed via informer event (so we know the coordinates are accurate),
and the verified owner is namespaced, and the dependent is not in the same namespace,
an event will be recorded for user visibility, since cross-namespace ownerReferences are not supported.
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