Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 40234, 45885, 42975)
Fed target cluster by label for sync controller
[use clusterselector w/ federated configmap deploys](667dc77444)
**What this PR does / why we need it**: adds the ability to indicate objects are sent to subsets of federated clusters ref #29887
**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes
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