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Anti affinity optimization
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This pull request aims to optimize the performance of anti-affinity rules lookup of existing pods
This optimization maps the topology values to a list of pods running on nodes that match this value and store that map in the pod metadata. Accordingly, when validating anti-affinity rules of existing pods we will only check those running on nodes with similar topology values to the current candidate (node) for scheduling.
**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes#63937
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
/sig scalability
/sig scheduling
**Release note**:
```release-note
improve performance of anti-affinity predicate of default scheduler.
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