When adding a new etcd member the etcd cluster can enter a state
of vote, where any new members added at the exact same time will
fail with an error right away.
Implement exponential backoff retry around the MemberAdd call.
This solves a kubeadm problem when concurrently joining
control-plane nodes with stacked etcd members.
From experiment, a few retries with milliseconds apart are
sufficient to achieve the concurrent join of a 3xCP cluster.
Apply the same backoff to MemberRemove in case the concurrent
removal of members fails for similar reasons.
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