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Added OS verification for third party etcd binary
**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Enables downloading and relinking etcd to correct OS specific binary/package.
**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes#64754
**Special notes for your reviewer**:
There are some incidents when etcd binaries are present for darwin (etcd-v3.2.18-darwin-amd64) in `${KUBE_ROOT}/third_party` directory but local-cluster creation is invoked from linux system. This leads to cluster creation failure due to missing appropriate os dependent etcd binary (etcd-v3.2.18-linux-amd64). So in this PR, we are verifying OS and relinking `etcd` softlink to appropriate `etc-${version}-${os}-*` binary.
**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```