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controller-manager: switch to options+config pattern and add https+auth
This PR switch the {kube,cloud}-controller-managers to use the Options+Config struct pattern for bootstrapping, as we use it throughout all apiservers. This allows us to easily plug in https and authn/z support.
Fixes parts of https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/59483
This is equivalent to https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/pull/59408 after squashing.
```release-note
Deprecate insecure HTTP port of kube-controller-manager and cloud-controller-manager. Use `--secure-port` and `--bind-address` instead.
```