The APIs talked about "stale services" and "stale endpoints", but the
thing that is actually "stale" is the conntrack entries, not the
services/endpoints. Fix the names to indicate what they actual keep
track of.
Also, all three fields (2 in the endpoints update object and 1 in the
service update object) are currently UDP-specific, but only the
service one made that clear. Fix that too.
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