build: Bump rust-vmm dependencies

Bump to the released versions that are compatible wherever possible but
for the vhost and vfio crates they are git hashes as no releases with
compatible versions have yet been made.

Signed-off-by: Rob Bradford <rbradford@meta.com>

virtio-devices/src/lib.rs

@@ -168,9 +168,7 @@ pub fn get_host_address_range<M: GuestMemory + ?Sized>(
     if mem.check_range(addr, size) {
         let slice = mem.get_slice(addr, size).unwrap();
         assert!(slice.len() >= size);
-        // TODO: return a VolatileSlice and fix all callers.
-        #[allow(deprecated)]
-        Some(slice.as_ptr())
+        Some(slice.ptr_guard_mut().as_ptr())
     } else {
         None
     }