Rate limiting is implemented in the virtio device layer and does not
apply to vhost-user devices which delegate I/O handling to an external
process.
Add validation to reject configurations where vhost_user is enabled
along with rate limiting options (bw_size, ops_size, or
rate_limit_group) for both disk and network devices.
This prevents users from mistakenly configuring rate limiting that would
be silently ignored when using vhost-user backends.
Signed-off-by: Rob Bradford <rbradford@meta.com>