fix(bindings): add SafeHandleWrapper + memory growth checks; bump 0.9.1 (#571)

- Introduce SafeHandleWrapper with gating, short drain wait, and deferred release on last in-flight exit.
- Wire Engine/Program/Rvm/CompiledPolicy to wrapper (centralized handle use, interop helper).
- Add C# memory growth tests (using/finalizer paths) and extend xtask C# runner options.
- Add pooled marshalling utilities, ResultHelpers, and API cleanups; update versions/changelog.

Fixes #570. Closes #554

Signed-off-by: Anand Krishnamoorthi <anakrish@microsoft.com>

bindings/csharp/Regorus.Tests/RvmProgramTests.cs

@@ -96,9 +96,9 @@ allow if {
         Assert.AreEqual("true", result, "expected allow=true");
     }
 
-      [TestMethod]
-      public void Program_host_await_suspend_and_resume_succeeds()
-      {
+    [TestMethod]
+    public void Program_host_await_suspend_and_resume_succeeds()
+    {
         var modules = new[] { new PolicyModule("host_await.rego", HostAwaitPolicy) };
         var entryPoints = new[] { "data.demo.allow" };
 
@@ -115,5 +115,5 @@ allow if {
 
         var resumed = vm.Resume("{\"tier\":\"gold\"}");
         Assert.AreEqual("true", resumed, "expected allow=true after resume");
-      }
+    }
 }